saw a post in my friend's friendster bulletin. i think it's really sweet... the guys should really read this:Love the girl in your heart, not in yourmind. If you base your relationship on feelings, itwill fail for there are ups & downs in feelings. Girlsare there to be loved, not toyed around.
Love her for who she is. Don't even think aboutchanging any bit about her. 6 billion people in thisworld & 6 billion different personalities. She'sspecial & she will stay that way. You change anypart of her, you'll change her forever. Don'tsubstitute her for anyone else, they are just uniquein their own ways.
Love whole-heartedly. She sacrificed a lot for youso you'd better really treassure her. She couldhave just got up & date a so much more dashingguy in town but she chose you instead all becauseof love. So love her guys, not play with her.Don'tjust get the girl to beg you to stay or whatsoever. If you're with her, love her.
Don't cause a strain in the relationship, you'll endup loving each other out of pity or charity, that'snot respecting love at all. Respect love the way itis & everything will be the best it can be. I've beenthere & I know how it feels.
Don't expect perfection from her. She's the only one in the world & she's done the best she could.
Like another girl while you're in a relationship?Then I think it's time you remain single for a while.Don't go around breaking girls' hearts, it's themost tragic thing to do.
Tell the truth, never hide anything from her. If youwant her to tell you everything, do the same.
Don't go calling other girls "honey" or "darling", how would it feel if your girl calls other guys thesame way? Be faithful, enough is enough.
Socialise only when you're single. You socialise & flirt around is to get the girl of your dreams. Get it over when she's already yours, don't ask for more.
It never kills to be romantic. Think, be flexible.Getting that diamond ring isn't the only gift for her. Be realistic, she's human & she lives lifejust like you. Something sweet & simple always gets the job done.
Money doesn't exist between couples, it's the love.
Never promise her that you'll love her foreverbecause your forever might end the next day.Love her as if each day is the last.
Sweet talking only applies for singles, not for attached guys. Do that & you'll really break your girl's heart.
It isn't good being too well-known too, it'll give her asense of insecurity. Remember, INSECURITY.
Promise her & make sure you never break the promise. Swear to her & make sure you live up to your word. Pledge your love to her & her alone.
Loving her is giving her your heart to break it but trusting her not to. Same goes for her, giving u her heart means allowing u to break it and trusting u not to. Instead, she'll cherish it & protect it. Should'nt you do the same thing as well? That's love.
Give her your heart, your life, your everything. Lay down your life & prepare to die for her when the need arises. But stay strong & live through another day, she can never live without you.
Never, ever walk out of her life. She won't just cry her heart out & carry on living as per normal, she'd die. It's her heart that you've broken, how would you ever know how she feels?
Winning a girl's heart isn't the final victory. Don't leave her once you've won her love. Love her all the way till the end of time, love her till marriage, love her till old age, love her till death. If you can love her till the end of time, you've earned the honor & respect for you've truly loved her.
She chose you because she believes that you can fulfill your promise. Win her heart back & love her all over again.
guys should really learn from this k? dun ever hurt someone who loves u whole heartedly.
